Do you fear losing love?
In terms of success, love is one of the most important motivational factors that govern life. When you are in love, you often resort actions that you would not normally do. Driven by love emotion however, you sometimes overlook certain unfavorable outcomes and take action. When it happens that you fail (and everyone fails from time to time), it takes a lot of will power to recover quickly. In some cases, recovery can take years.
There are however situations when people can be paralyzed by thoughts of losing the love of their significant other. IF you are in such a situation, it will affect your ability to pursue your goals in all aspects of life, including professional. That is why you need to understand where you stand, in order to be able to improve your situation.
You can find below a list of questions that you should be asking yourself, in order to determine if you have this kind of fear.
Self-evaluation questionnaire
Please take your time with the questions and answer them truthfully. Be true to yourself – it is the only way to make real progress.
- Are you generally jealous?
- Do you suspect friends and loved ones of various hidden agendas?
- Are you accusing your life partner of infidelity without proper grounds or evidence to do so?
- Are you suspicious of everyone around you?
- Do you have absolute faith in no one?
- Do you find faults with family, friends, business associates and loved ones without slightest provocation and without probable cause?
- Are you a gambler?
- Do you steal?
- Do you cheat on your partner?
- Is it your habit to take hazardous chances to provide money for loved ones?
- Do you believe that love can be bought with gifts or various other advantages?
- Do you spend beyond your means to provide gifts for loved one, in order to make a good impression?
- Are you lacking persistence in pursuing your goals?
- Do you lack self-control (emotional in particular)?
- Do you lack self-reliance?
- Are you known to have a bad temper?
- Do you have doubts that your family loves you?
- Do you seek approval of others?
If you find yourself in one or more of the scenarios above, chances are that your subconscious fear of losing the love of your love interest is affecting various parts of your life.
How to escape the fear of losing love
In order to overcome this fear, you need to reach a decision that you are able to continue to live your life without the loved one, if that should become necessary.
Stop worrying about losing love, instead of enjoying the good emotions it brings. Use these emotions to motivate yourself to reach your goals. Love has always been one of the most important motivational factors towards achieving great things.
If you find yourself without love, make it one of your goals to work on your attractive personality. If your desire to improve yourself is strong enough, love will find its way to you.
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